All healthy relationships especially between lovers require sex. However, when two people have been together for a long time, they tend to find sex a routine and also boring. It even becomes more difficult to maintain the passion you and your partner had when you started the relationship. Actually, you find yourselves with no new ideas and the spark disappears. If your relationship is in such as a stage you need to know how to add spice to your sour sex life. Mostly, spicing your sex life requires you to go creative. It is important to note that you can have one partner for a long time and still enjoy sex so long as you know how to spice.
Some of the ways you can use to add spice to your sour sex life include; pleasuring your partner without expectations, doing some kinky games and being spontaneous. When you learn to just pleasure your partner without expecting to have sex, it gets better. Your sex life can get sour when you just fondle and caress for 30 minutes then you jump into sex. If one of you is in a relaxed mood, you can just continue in the mood while you pleasure one another. If you get back home and find your partner watching TV, you can take the opportunity. Playing bedroom games can also help you spice up your sex life. Actually, most people believe games are the best ways to spice up sex. Choose any game that both of you enjoy and set sex related rewards for the winner.
You can also get kinky and add some role-plays while having sex. Kinkiness can include getting toys, costumes and props from a sex store. However, you do not have to buy your sex toys; you can just get creative with things in your house and still have a wild night. Having sex in new places other than your bedroom can also improve your sex life. It is exciting to have sex in a place where both of you have never had sex. Some of these places include the kitchen and bathroom. Most people find the kitchen more exciting than the bedroom. If you have children, you can take a weekend away from home to a hotel or motel or resort and have your dreamt sex time. New places always bring back the fun and excitement of having sex. Being spontaneous ensures none of you expects anything. Planning for sex generates expectations which are unnecessary for a healthy sex life.